My first boyfriend was very abusive and raped me many a time. Now no one go into a "why were you with him" kinda thing. Brainwashing does happen. But my boyfriend now is wonderful and patient. I genuinely want to have sex with him and make him happy but it is hard for me to relax and let it happen with anxiety and everything from that. That needle sounds very helpful. It's not always that you "aren't attracted to someone." Sometimes there are other factors that come into play.
I think Adrienne was just saying you might wanna rule out the fact you’re not attracted to that person before getting medical treatment for it. Not negating the fact that there are natural causes (meds, age-hormone imbalance) that make libido drop.
While I’m pleased for Adrienne that she’s never experienced a low libido, it does frustrate me how she doesn’t really try to understand her experience is not the experience of everyone else. I was on the Pill from 15 to 19 and went off it because the hormones totally killed off my libido. 19!! Imagine being 19 and not having a sex drive, it annoyed the hell out of me! Now I’m in a weird rock and a hard place between “if I’m on the pill I don’t have to use condoms but I won’t have the sex drive anyway so there’s no point being on the pill if I’m not in the mood to have sex ever” versus “I’m not on the pill now, horny af but always have to make sure I have a condom handy” 😂 like damn maybe being on the pill plus a prick in the ankle would’ve been the right combo!
Erm yeah it can happen when experiencing mental health problems like depression and it can be especially bad when taking medication for that.. It's one of the listed side effects. And it shouldn't be offensive to your partner, I think it should be the opposite, it shows them that even though for whatever reason your body/mind isn't feeling it, you care about your partner so you want to make things work for them.. Some people actually feel guilty when they're expericing problems with their libdo, especially if their partner's libido is much higher than theirs.. Like others have said, please look into topics before discussing them cos this is a real issues for couples or people's sex lives..
I'm not married nor have children, but women can have a low libido just like men due to many medical conditions. Adrienne needs to do her research and Loni just makes me feel cringy when she talks about sex.
Adrienne, given as you're not the most eloquent, articulate speaker on the table, you might probably want to learn to listen to the more intelligent speakers like, Jeannie, for example, before you obnoxiously and loudly interrupt them with your redundant comments. You are, after all, the one that said the meaning of being naturalized in a country is that "you were naturally born in that country". Smh
I can't believe none of them actually know what they're talking about. There are so many conditions that cause women to have low libido, like PCOS, which is actually VERY common. Low libido has nothing to do with attraction. There are over-the-counter meds for this issue, so it's not strange that they've now come up with another form of treatment.
Come on, ladies.
Thanks Yvette , Adrienne sometimes you should just stay quiet. Wait until you are married for 15, 20 or more years.
You are newly married and of course everything is physical attraction at this point.
We will see in 5 years.
🙄 the reals comments is the reason I can’t be around more than one female at a time. Y’all are sooo damn emotional and self-absorbed. Adrienne does Come off as the annoying newlywed, but the point she made is actually a legit reason. One I believe to be the hindrance for a lot of women who are committed to these bums 🤷🏼♀️
Adrienne can be so dumb and judgmental sometimes! I don't mean to call her names but she's... dumb. Like she doesn't get that some women just aren't as horny as her, or can't really orgasm. Its a real problem that nobody talks about and she's sitting there shaming them. Don't be ashamed of low libido, or any other problems you have. If you need a shot to feel good during sex, it isn't yours or your partners fault, your parts aren't just working as they should. It doesn't mean you're not attracted or don't wanna have sex with your partner thats ridiculous Adrienne.
Im sorry, but i wish Loni's makeup artist should make up her mind what color Loni should be. Sometimes tjey have her makeup on point. And she looks great. But on thos episode absolutely not. Stop with that baking thing cause we can see the powder and its too light. Please do better.
I usually love Adrienne here but I don’t like the fact that she’s making it seem like low libido is always an attraction issue. Not everyone can have an orgasm on demand everyone’s bodies are different
I was sexually active since my divorce it has done serious damage on my mental health I’m only 27 and don’t want sex obviously it’s hard because all these men around here are liars cheaters so I can’t trust my body with no man ✋🏽 with all these disease going on and people with mental illness u can’t trust men so the result of all this I’m like an old 90 yr granny 😏
Jesus Christ Adrienne!! Just wait til you have kids. Or god forbid you get depression and need meds. It’s not all sex. And I doubt Israel has the stamina to be doing all you say!!! You are so out of touch it’s ridiculous.
Duh who cares if u need a little help to get the juices flowing even an ankle thing. No man is going to care they just want to have sex and if you enjoy it with them even better. Also i just liked Loni saying bang bang eh eh every minute hahahhahha.
For the love of God, STOP INTERRUPTING JEANNIE!!! I haven't watched one single video in which she gets to say what she wants without one of the ladies chiming in. It happens sometimes, but what you're doing to her is becoming really rude man.
Adrienne lives in a perfect world chile! Hormones, birth control, stress, anxiety, life in general can affect your libido. Some women are born with low estrogen levels and I mean everyone is NOT a sex rabbit naturally, so a lil help is fine I suppose?
Adrienne, you need to ask yourself that question. In about 10 years when you're in your prime sexually and Israel's libido starts slowing down, how would feel if he starts taking Viagra to have sex with you? Not everyone will have a high libido all the time. It fluctuates. Sometimes life happens: having children, stress, anxiety, medical issues, depression ect... It has nothing to do with how one feels about the other person but more so what's is happening in one's personal life.
Adrian is right but I don’t think it’s fair to women to not have the same access to medical treatment as men. Men are believed when they say they have a low libido and people make drugs and treatments for them. They aren’t told to figure out their feelings and examine their relationships. If women experienced the same issues then they have a right to be able to access the same type of remedies.
Adrienne, sometimes women have a low libido due to hormone imbalance, health issues, etc. It doesn’t make them lesser than you or undesirable. I love you and you are a role model to me, I wish I could rely on you to be a little more kind and understanding when it comes to these topics. It seems that everytime sex is brought up on this show we have to hear from you how awful women or their partners are if they aren’t having sex constantly. It makes me sad.
I wish they would do more research so they could have more to add. There are so many reasons why a woman can have a low sex drive, not just that she’s not attracted to her partner. I get that its supposed to be lighthearted and fun but the show is called The Real for a reason.
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