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People Don't Like Me...and That's OK

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How to accept that some people just won't like you or want to be friends with you, with PIE. Pie-nomenal recipe on Bakerella: http://www.bakerella.com/chocolate-chip-cookie-pie%E2%80%A6-oh-my/ Extra Credit Listening: http://www.stuffmomnevertoldyou.com/podcasts/anthropology-pie/ Share this on Facebook: http://on.fb.me/1rN1VEg Share this on Twitter: http://ctt.ec/WAgGy Subscribe: http://bit.ly/1l8JXv3 On the web: http://www.stuffmomnevertoldyou.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/momstuffpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StuffMomNeverToldYou Google+: http://bit.ly/1kNchOQ Tumblr: http://stuffmomnevertoldyou.tumblr.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/stuffmomnevertoldyou# Join Cristen to get down to the business of being a woman and all the Stuff Mom Never Told You about bodies, boys and the female brain.
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Tamara Bitter (12 дней назад)
Well people don't care if you don't like them and there ok with it
Jesse L. Reyna (1 месяц назад)
Well most women don’t like me. But for the most part;I realized it wasn’t me that was the problem? It was in fact them. The ones I approached online;was looks versus brains;but not two at one time met on the same path at one time for sure. But it was their overwhelming confidence of abilities that turned me off.i actually walked away from them a lot of times;rather then seeing them turn me down every single time growing up teen years. But what are your thought so on that;and just joking around I heard;but you sounded better than most female singers trying to be serious on talent shows these days?! Lol.
Jacqueline Smith (2 месяца назад)
I've been fighting for acceptance for as long as I can remember. Especially trying to get along with my coworkers. I feel out of the loop no matter where I am. Whether it's family or at work. Just wherever I am that requires being around people I feel disconnected. I'm beginning to accept it now and I'm ok with that.
TheMabes69 (7 месяцев назад)
i like you but that pie looks f*ked up
ninja lemonade (7 месяцев назад)
Michael Skinner (7 месяцев назад)
I don't know. Some people can use a lot of improvement🤥. You try (and there's always room for improvement), but you can't please everyone.
Steven Blackwell (7 месяцев назад)
I have no friends or girlfriend since my divorce three years ago My kids worry sometimes about me being alone because I moved 500 miles away from anyone I know But I’m happy I’m happier than I have been in years I do like people just don’t like being around people
Rald Shenda Carreon (1 год назад)
thank you so much ❤️☹️
blankscreen100 (1 год назад)
And not everyone I will like. Ya don't LIKE me, who gives a FUCK? I don't. Ohhh, im gonna die if a bitch don't like me.
McFlingleson (1 год назад)
Is chocolate chip pie a thing? I need to try that.
DaaaahWhoosh (1 год назад)
I feel like this kind of video would've been much more useful back when I should have been making friends. Instead I decided not to talk to anyone so they wouldn't be afraid of me. Ah well, you win some, you lose some.
Carl Alfredo (1 год назад)
Omg i love you, the beautiful meaning of this video, that you created, is reason enough for everyone to like you.
Alexis Mitchell (1 год назад)
The whole idea of everyone liking me is overwhelming. I would hate constantly feeling pressured to adjust to meet the various needs of so many people. One size doesn't fit all and I am not a social chameleon.
Bonnie Hundley (1 год назад)
Oh, I see your plan. Feed people by boosting their serotonin levels whilst in your presence. The association of the feel good chem's and you will be melded together. This is a bit like classical conditioning. Ha ha! No wonder people almost always include food with socializing, particularly business meetings. Don't eat the chocolate pie, you will be like putty in their hands. Must resist.
Caraptor WD (1 год назад)
your pie looks like dog shit. i don't like you is that ok?
Liz Torres (1 год назад)
I was looking for a video on HOW TO LIKE PEOPLE. But only videos of how to make OTHER people like YOU come up. wtf why?
Alistair Soh (1 год назад)
Liz Torres Because society. ._.
Rochelle Malgarte (1 год назад)
The little pie song at the end was adorable!
Js399 (1 год назад)
Nah something is wrong with them they're fucked up because real humans dont give a shit what you look or kind of act like, but when I know people don't accept me and treat me like I'm crazy around others and don't look at me when they come to me later I say "I wish you the best of luck" just say that when someone comes and ask you for something or try to talk to you after being a dick
rowanmark (2 года назад)
i like you
Angelique Coke (2 года назад)
that song at the ens was so cute, and kinda catchy
J Wold (2 года назад)
I've never heard of a chocolate chip pie before.
Kris Spicer (2 года назад)
Cute Video. I cooked for a lot of years so it was quite an appealing and fun video. Hahahahaha Never had a chochlate pie it sounds amazing. I do think you mentoned two of the most important ingredients in a sucessful pie. Love and Trust. I think when we put that into every dish it ends to be really good. So if people don't like those secret ingrigidients then they are proably not worhty to sit at the friendship table. All of the recipies must contain at least those 2 ingredients. Really helped bring my mood up and put some perspective on the differences of people. I know what I want in my cooking from now on. Thank You.
flakeyjay (2 года назад)
Your man is a lucky guy, but I am more interested in the pork carnitas in the crockpot! Whats that recipe.
Keira Specht (2 года назад)
Yeah My Brother And My Mom have a nut allergy And a penut butter :( I feel Bad For Them :(
Ebba Bangoura (2 года назад)
Haha I just found this video and it is AMAZING! Subscribed? I think yes!
Cierra (2 года назад)
Thank you. The concept is so simple and true! Love it
Gladys Mukoro (3 года назад)
great video it will help a lot with anger issues so thumbs up:)
Gladys Mukoro (3 года назад)
i love pork :)
Erica Miller (3 года назад)
This was awesome and you're hilarious.  Thank you!
modernmarvel (3 года назад)
Well played Kristen, well played.....
Richard Ames (3 года назад)
People don't like people. The entire world is screwed up because the truth of the matter is this, we all suck equally. 
Moonpiecranberry (3 года назад)
Thank-you <3
safiullah mohammed (3 года назад)
I love you ,you totally changed my perspective 
lali21 (3 года назад)
Loved this video...
Cowwy (3 года назад)
I was searching why people don't like me and I stumbled upon here from Google search.  I love how you phrase and look at the issue in different light.  Always thought that I need to please everyone, be nice to everyone, just seems like the right thing to do.  I guess I have to readjust myself to accept and embrace that not everyone is going to like me.  :D
Annika (3 года назад)
It would be nice if someone could convert the ingredients to european measurements, I live in Sweden and don't understand inches and cups and "sticks of butter"...
cooldaddyjames2814 (3 года назад)
U actually can sing just need to be more self assured. I bet you'd kill some covers. Not a request but if you wanna do it anyway but just need someone to light a fire under you well here 🔥🐴
Oshin Sr (3 года назад)
there is such thing called, chocolate chip pie? what?! amazing!
Cassie Freitag (3 года назад)
You should've shown how it turned out! :) I wanted to see the results!
Lotte (3 года назад)
People keep pointing out things I need to change about myself and telling me that "Some people told me that they don't like you or wanna hang out with you because you do this or that. I can't tell you who, but I think you should change so that more people will wanna be friends with you". This has happened to be twice in the last couple of months and it concerned overly loud and present behavior and being overly honest. That's just the way I am, though. I'm really not sure if people are just judgmental or if I'm really just that annoying to be around. Should I even want to be friends with people who say those things about me to my friends behind my back? This video helped, but I still can't help but wonder if there are certain things that I should change, because they're simply unacceptable. 
Jaune E (3 года назад)
The minute you are born, you'll have enemies..
Shirotaka the Vent (3 года назад)
this video pretty much held me all the way through my sadness... plus, PIE!!
Robin_h00d ' (3 года назад)
Omg such a voice, cant just sing a song and rry somthing out in a video
Evolventity (3 года назад)
This video reminds me of the quote: "You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there’s still going to be someone who hates peaches" by Dita von Teese. Hooray for metaphors! Great video and explanation. The song at the end is very catchy. Is she using a melody from another song? I want more!
Natalie Logue (3 года назад)
Thanks for the pie! (P.ersonal I.ntentional E.njoyment?)
bebalasvegaspoodle (3 года назад)
Deal with it, Tony. He won't see this, but yeah. Deal WITH ITTTTT.
rachellespen (3 года назад)
I just found this channel yesterday, AND IT'S AWESOME! Thank you for making such interesting and educational videos that are so fun to watch. Now I need to go make a pie...
Monika Jauregui (3 года назад)
I understand this to a way more complex standard than most. It's not even about the pie.
Karen O. (3 года назад)
After this video, if ever I feel down I will bake a pie, remember this video and feel better.
MariaTheCurious (3 года назад)
fine hate me,i might as well hate you...now we have something in common :D we hate eachother,what a lovely relationship we have ^_^
Inconcinnus (3 года назад)
Mid-video I was really motivated to comment something deep and heartfelt and encouraging but... Now I can only think of the pie song.
Jonathan Rail (3 года назад)
I was struck by how Cristen was holding her whisk as she was mixing in the butter, and thought about how much my shoulders would hurt if I tried doing that. I then thought about sex/gender musculature tendencies to explain the difference, and finally realized that that makes another perfect illustration: People do things differently, and it doesn't matter whether those differences come from biology or background: what's important is what works for the individual.
Chiara Dias (3 года назад)
loved the tiny pie song!
Germán Giunta (3 года назад)
Thank you.
Lauren Temple (3 года назад)
You are a radical human! Just like you I used to always care about what people thought of me and took it to hart but at the moment I really could't care! Please continue being awesome! Greetings from the UK xxx 
Kira Biggs (3 года назад)
It's okay, and maybe even good, to not care what others think of you. But that's assuming there are at least a few people who really do like you. What if nobody likes you and you can't change your "recipe" even if you really want to? Are you just stuck with being hated, and therefore, sad, and alone? How are you supposed to know when it's time to give up on hoping that anyone will ever like you for you? Just wondering...
CARMEN Estrellas (3 года назад)
I thought I was the only one who made up songs as I worked !!!! ur so cool!
Intern Sherry (3 года назад)
Julia Childs would be so proud!
SunnyTangerine19 (3 года назад)
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss I loved all the points you made in this video! I always try to do my best to channel my inner Seuss, but I will agree that it is sometimes very difficult when we get scrambled up in our thoughts. We just have to remember to be the very best selves that we can be :) Love your videos, please keep up the awesome job! (And your little song at the end was so adorable <3)
jtech0 (3 года назад)
I find autism kind of makes things different i was younger i didn't really fit in with anyone that well. Now i've got older and kind of looking at people i fit in with best are for most part older and many cases agree with the older people about things.  During school sometimes people would just give me crap make fun of my name, etc. I just thought whatever don't care just ignore it. Sometimes it got annoying i told myself i bet one day i'll have better job than them, or invent something be next millionaire. Interesting too my favorite country song since it came out is Billy currington people are crazy, the older i get the more i see at least in general there's truth to that. Everyones different to you maybe they're crazy to other people maybe normal. And that in many situations there's politics/nepotism involved some way some how. Even if that don't make sense to you it probably does to someone else even if they're wrong.
Stefan Perunicic (3 года назад)
Best song ever xD
Stefan Perunicic (3 года назад)
This is awesome, thank you for doing this! :)
Danielle Hull (3 года назад)
I love the sound of the Chocolate Chip pie! but I prefer a Lemon-Meringue pie...or Gooseberry Crumble...I might try the Choco-chip pie... Just looked at the recipe...the ingredients are in cups...I work in ounces...conversion rates anywhere?
Rachel Franklin (3 года назад)
You have an amazing singing voice :)
MonacoBlast (3 года назад)
Now I want pie.
FlowingStarlight (3 года назад)
What about when _nobody_ likes your pie?
Zheeph (3 года назад)
I really liked your point on this one. Specially because the less you worry about the people who don't like you, the more people you'll attract. Because people are more into someone relaxed and calm than into someone completely stressed and worried. Calm around others shows that you're willing to accept them.
Isaac Sherman (3 года назад)
Great insights!  I feel like I should spend more time watching your Youtube channel.  I'm a long-time listener to your podcast, and while I love the banter and the depth, your videos are entertaining and informative.
Old Primary (3 года назад)
This made me giggle, thank you Cristen!
Elisa Somebody (3 года назад)
PERFECT video!!!!! I LOVE the pie metaphors oh my GOSH!!!!! How did u get the idea for this video??? I used to be SO concerned about what ppl thought of me but it's like one day I just woke up and got over it NO LIE. I'd been praying about it and I feel SO much more happy now with life. I love ur videos, girl!!!! You've inspired me to keep going and to be myself!!!! :')
Aaron Kark (3 года назад)
I really loved the chanson you sang at the end; made me laugh over and over again... hehehe. Thanks to your video, I finally decided to make only one pie, and don't spend more time baking other recipes that only tires me with bothersome comments.
indigothecat (3 года назад)
I'm guessing Rush Limbaugh wouldn't enjoy being your friend, but that's OK, I wouldn't enjoy being his friend myself, and I'd much rather be your friend than his.
Alex Reilly (3 года назад)
Can I have a shirt that says: "Your pie must be filled with rat brains and dust." That really sums up my view of the people I go to school with.
Benny R (3 года назад)
You seem perfect to me.
Jesus Nunez (3 года назад)
That advice looks delicious to me.
Marta Bearr (3 года назад)
How could someone not like you, Cristen? You're absolutely wonderful!
Haleena Noland (3 года назад)
This is so funny, and so true!
rockchickani (3 года назад)
Your amazing at this YouTube advice thing!
lindsey richards (3 года назад)
I have an 8 year old daughter, and I can't tell you have valuable your videos have become in some of our discussions. I can tell her all day long "you can't please everyone, so work on being happy with yourself" and while i think that helps, having your channel to back me up or present it in a new way has been great. Sometimes mom does tell you, but hearing it from someone else can be what drives a point home. Thank you thank you thank you. My little girl LOVES herstory too, btw. 
Laura Monge (3 года назад)
I really like you Cristen!
hellocaroh (3 года назад)
I wish I found this channel earlier
Natasha (3 года назад)
I hate when dust gets in pie!.....I love your outfit Fyi :D !!
Abby Schendt (3 года назад)
Even friends won't always be happy with who you are. I spent two years eating with my calculus teacher because my friends made eating anywhere else miserable. Then senior, they acted like nothing happened. I wanted to tell them I had no desire to associate with the people who had left me going home and crying and my best friend my own mother. But I also knew that doing so wouldn't make me feel any better. So I pretended that the last couple of years didn't happen. My mother said they didn't deserve that, but I got to the point where I realized that while I could be a friend to them and others who had been complacent in my bullying, the only opinion that mattered was my own. When I finally went to college, I met a lot of people who had never experience such derision and found myself the person a lot of people went to for advice. So while I hated what my supposed "best friends" did, I became a better person and a person that others wanted to be friends with since I learned to accept myself. And my college friends have stuck by me and defended me. Sorry for the rambling, but your video sort of inspired my own self reflection. 
Runningwolftrucker (3 года назад)
Thanks Cristen for that lovely metaphor! No one has ever made it clear to me that you can have a great recipe, but like real food, not everyone is going to like it. I tend to freak out if someone doesn't like me and obsessively analyze why that might be. But this helps me see that's pointless, and that I need to stop the habit and just live how i'm going to live.
RoboticScribble (3 года назад)
HAHAHAHA!! That's all.
Mel Lane (3 года назад)
Thanks very much for posting this!
Carmen Maciboric (3 года назад)
I've never heard of a chocolate chip pie... must be an american thing? :/
YellowTurnip (3 года назад)
What the heck kind of pie has pepper in it? I can't imagine pepper being good in any pie, unless you include pot pies/meat pies, but those aren't really pies now are they?
Justin Griffith (3 года назад)
marls4life (3 года назад)
Cristen this is almost making me cry. I may not be in full on tears but this has been an issue for me for the longest time and you just kind of hit those heart strings. Thank you!
Neani Neto (3 года назад)
I like your singing. 
velochanteuse (3 года назад)
Thank you. This chocolate chip pie pep talk was greatly needed.
chimemonster (3 года назад)
this from the girl who made a video about how a certain number of sandwitches made by a GF for her BF as a marraige deal is SEXIST and chauvanist and  . . . .. .   you have grown miss crissy, and that is a good thing. May you always be comfortable with who you are. http://testtube.com/stuffmomnevertoldyou/300-sandwiches/
cablooshki (3 года назад)
Are you in a relationship with someone who really loves you for your "recipe", if you need to make 300 sandwiches before that person agrees to marriage?  That said, it could very well have been a joke between the two, an interesting way to spend time together, and he might have done quite a bit for her as well - sometimes we take life too seriously.  However, if I had that as a serious stipulation I might feel a little upset - my husband likes my cooking, but it seems like one part of the recipe, and not a condition.
Lily Dalbkce (3 года назад)
Possibly the best video on your channel! Good job! I might have to show this to some people!
HowStuffWorks (3 года назад)
In this +Stuff Mom Never Told You - HowStuffWorks, learn how to accept that some people just won't like you or want to be friends with you, with PIE.
C. F. Phillip (3 года назад)
Yeh I've seen some people write some nasty comments under your vids and a few people have also explicitly said they don't like your appearance, voice, video editing, acting etc. Lol, do you remember that one time you called someone out for sharing their opinion that you wore too much makeup so you went barefaced in a subsequent video? Lol, I thought that was a funny way to deal with someone not liking you but I like the "just say OK" mindset more. There are people that love what you do and think you're pretty cool and there are people that think the complete opposite; both are quite alright. 
Silver Giovanni (3 года назад)
I feel like people may also have a change of taste if their taste buds mature or if they feel they have had too much of a flavor recently and need to broaden their pallet or they are just feeling stuffed and need to digest. Also, your pie is your pie but what if you decide if you want to be a different flavor because you yourself are tired of the same taste and want to broaden your range of flavors or change your flavor entierely, and should you have your favorite taste testers around you to make sure you find the flavor you want? I have lost count of how many metaphors are in there but now i'm hungry for pie (actual pie) but i think it was a lot easier talking about this in pie metaphors.
somechick73 (3 года назад)
Mm I want some pie.
Akasha Lavender (3 года назад)
I need to see Professor Boyfriend twerk! XD Twerk for that pie!
Ketki M (3 года назад)
Hey Cristen, great pie! I hope professor boyfriend twerked when he got home from work

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