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How to Spot Sexual Attraction in Eyes | Body Language

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Watch more How to Read Body Language videos: http://www.howcast.com/videos/501674-How-to-Spot-Sexual-Attraction-in-Eyes-Body-Language Out of all the different non-verbal behaviors, I think that spotting attraction is without a doubt the easiest. We are very emotional creatures and when we're attracted to somebody, it's very, very difficult to hide. People think they're hiding it, but things always slip. One of the ways they slip are essentially the eyes. There are a lot of different ways you can use the eyes to determine whether or not someone's attracted to you. The first thing is essentially eye contact. For the most part, usually we make eye contact with people that we're interested in or people that we're attracted to. Right? But this is not entirely true. Some people are shy or anxious and they're not going to make eye contact. So what you're looking for essentially is a deviation in eye contact. So one of the ways you can use eye contact and there's a little trick that's very, very reliable. So what you're going to do is if you look at somebody in a bar or restaurant or on the street and they break eye contact vertically, so they look down. So you make eye contact with them and they break eye contact vertically and then within 20-30 seconds they reestablish eye contact, approach them. They like you. It's a very, very reliable thing. Essentially what they're doing. You stare at them. They're submitting to you and then they take a little second glance to see who you are. It's very, very, very reliable. The opposite of that would be if you look at somebody and they look at you and they immediately go and break eye contact. Nope, not interested. But what is reliable is they break eye contact and they come back. Break eye contact and then come back. Break eye contact and then come back. It's very interesting. And don't let it wait. If you see that, go right away because the more and more you wait. The more and more eye contact becomes very, very awkward. One of the things that I do in one of my classes is I have people stare each other in the eyes for three minutes without saying anything. They just stare each other in the eyes like this. Try that. Go out and try to stare somebody in the eyes for even 90 seconds. I guarantee you can't do it. It's awkward. It's so awkward because humans are not really at a level intimacy. When you stare somebody in the eyes is so awkward when you're doing it with a stranger. Studies will show that if you stare somebody in the eyes for 90 seconds to three minutes, all of a sudden you're going to like that person a lot better than everybody else in the room because you kind of shared this emotional connection. So eye contact is important in that respect. The second thing you can look for essentially is blink rate. Now, this is really cool. So blink rate correlate with emotional excitement. When we are emotionally excited, our blink rates tend to increase. Right? Average blink rates tend to be below 20 blinks per minute. For most people it really depends on where you are, but it's really hard to nail down what the average blink rate is. But in my experience, it seems to be around 10 blinks per minute. Right? So you see, whenever you see a sudden spike or a bunch of sudden spikes in somebody's blink rate in can be an indication of attraction. In my dating studies you see blink rates through the roof because the person across the table from you has an emotional response. You're attracted to them. The third way of kind of using the eyes to determine attraction is dilation. It's very interesting. Our eyes dilate when we're attracted to something. Right? Go out and find a Maxim magazine or a Playboy magazine or any cover that's predominately men focusing. Every single woman will have her eyes dilated. You never, ever see them constricted. The reason why is because men perceive women with dilated eyes more attractive than women with more constricted eyes. To the point of back in the day prostitutes used to put a specific toxin in their eyes to make them dilate.
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djextinct (11 дней назад)
So I got a crush on my friend and I drop her off at home from school everyday and she’d be talking to me and we’d catch each other’s eyes and she’d slowly stop talking and we’d just stare into each other’s eyes for about 15 seconds without saying a word then I look away cause I feel like she’s staring into my literal soul it’s not a bad feeling I just get shy like that I’m scared to ask her out cause she’s being pursued by 2 other guys
Sugoi Steel Claymore (11 дней назад)
Bar and street, eww...
AaronsVids2 (14 дней назад)
This works to perfection in a club setting. Eye initiate eye contact with attractive girls then when they look away I maintain my subtle look and if they return the look i immediately approach. Hesitation hinders success.
Andwele Simpson (17 дней назад)
Attraction happens a lot non verbally but I never respond verbally to women because they're smart enough to speak themselves.
palmegl (23 дня назад)
I was talking to these two sales people and there was a third guy who i could see out the corner of my eye starring at me for ages...i glanced over and he quickly looked away, then he looked back like 10 seconds later and continued to stare and i could see it lol...i didnt give him another glance though...should have. Afterwards i thought who was that guy? Sussed him out and went and met him...to see if i liked him lol. The end part of the conversation was good...we were at close proximity and starring at each other for a good 3-5 seconds as convo was ending and topic had finished, neither one of us saying anything, and then he smiled, then i turned around and walked off. It felt right to just do that, then i heard him say bye and used my name (as he found out my name that conversation) I thought it was a perfect ending...just silence and eye contact and he put the cheery on top with his smile.
Time for illumination (1 месяц назад)
What if she stares at you? I get a lot of eye contact. It's good when waiting at a bus stop, instead of sitting on your phone, you can sit and just acknowledge people by looking into their eyes. In my experience, the ones that look back at me will hold a stare. It feels really good. You've got to try this out sometime. Just don't do it when you're doing something else, I.e. In a classroom. Do it when you're obviously supposed to be doing nothing else I.e. Waiting for a bus.
Myro Ziah (1 месяц назад)
Listening and looking in his dreamy eyes
pisceanrat (2 месяца назад)
Staring/breaking eye contact, blinking, dilation
tectonicD (2 месяца назад)
I keep trying this but I can’t follow a girls eyes that closely after I get Maced.
Ashaun Walwyn (2 месяца назад)
I must be one ugly muthafucka to look at
XGEN shocks (2 месяца назад)
This is so correct!!!!!
Jayden Davenport (2 месяца назад)
When I see myself in the mirror I always see like 3 or 1 or 2 sparkles in my eyes
Techno Gamer (2 месяца назад)
1:50 I got punched in the face
C. Tyrell (2 месяца назад)
This video gets me all bothered. Guy basically looks like a smaller version of the guy I'm into...
Michael Nim (3 месяца назад)
So here's a question, if the eye dilation thing happens with a woman I meet (they have it, I don't know if I have it) and I like them, but I'm to constricted with work and trying to make a living, and honestly don't want to take it too the next step, what should I do.
Dennis Salamone (3 месяца назад)
please let me tell you something that a lot of people don't know body language is not real these guys want you to believe they are experts. it is as fake as mediums sorry to disappoint you
Vincent Mark (3 месяца назад)
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Julio Ruiz (4 месяца назад)
So if they want to create eye contact over and over is that a symptom of attraction?
HIGHEST RAAD (4 месяца назад)
dilation is exploding
HIGHEST RAAD (4 месяца назад)
489 idiots liked a regular idiot
HIGHEST RAAD (4 месяца назад)
Vedant Mhatre (5 месяцев назад)
What if he or she had wore sunglasses?
Trish Estes (5 месяцев назад)
Music competition not able to focus on ur words
LyleDeYounges (6 месяцев назад)
My eye colour is so dark that you would have to flash light on them to see my dilated pupils, which of course would have the opposite effect. I can't communicate through my eyes subconsciously on that point.Oh, all the signals missed...
parenting management (6 месяцев назад)
how to overcome panic attack https://youtu.be/SN_SGDNMBVU
catchmeifyucan1 (7 месяцев назад)
stare them in the eyes? You mean like Dracula? It worked for him
unidentified person (7 месяцев назад)
What if my eyes are blind?
The Rational Saiyan (7 месяцев назад)
But the girl I like literally does both “I’m Interested in you” look and the “I’m not interested in you look”
The Rational Saiyan (1 месяц назад)
*where tf is my reply*
#ItsIsha time!! (7 месяцев назад)
Two boys in my school are having crush on me and proposed me but I am not interested in them but my real crush always looks at me that he is having crush with me but he does only when he talks with me and with me but not always I tried flirting him but he sometimes do the same..so is he intrested I me...???
Castle view Promotions (7 месяцев назад)
LoveCrzy Xoxo (7 месяцев назад)
I love this video !!!
JohnDaWhale3 (8 месяцев назад)
This guy looks like a mix between Matt Damon and some other guy but I'm not sure who the other guy would be.....
Chydova (8 месяцев назад)
not to be rude....but he needs braces...sorry, its the dentist assistant in me
Israel Dethroner (8 месяцев назад)
Honestly I would just bust out laughing if me and someone else stared each other down for more than a minute.
EggsandMayo (8 месяцев назад)
APPROACH THEM THEY LIKE YOU - ah bless the enthusiasm in that line
an-internet-user (8 месяцев назад)
body language expert? This little boy whoi can't even sit straight ? LoL ROFLMAO
Julyan Mathis (8 месяцев назад)
As far as the time length my junior year of highschool my first class at a new school and a girl just looked me in my eyes for roughly 5 minutes straight and no one blinked or looked away not even once. That happens to me more often than not but I don't think I look that good...I mean you can tell if the looks are for a different reason but they weren't.
Benjamin Taspo (8 месяцев назад)
ibrahim cetiner (8 месяцев назад)
http://bit.ly/2EEOX9j definately watch the whole thing on the link! Has some good info
Anthony Lane (8 месяцев назад)
If I stare at someone and they look at me, girl or not, I only really look back to see if they are still staring at me.
Lorraine G. (8 месяцев назад)
what about a man who stare at a woman when he is kissing her or is making love to her? what does all that mean?
Reaper 10813 (8 месяцев назад)
What if you make Eye contact and she smiles?
Jiminie The III (9 месяцев назад)
I keep looking at this guy and we hold eye contact for around 5 seconds sometimes but I don't think I like him. He is cute but I don't actually know why I keep looking at him.
Puppet Master (9 месяцев назад)
What if he stares at me like he wants to eat me? LOL he never looks away...
Harinder Sanghera (9 месяцев назад)
The last time a girl made eye contact with me she got up walked over to me , Im thinking hello .. jackpot ... She said you've got a better chance to visit the moon and walked off ..... keep your advice thank u very much
Random Robert 123 (9 месяцев назад)
I blinked 30 times because there was an eye lash in my eye
Funny video animals (9 месяцев назад)
Secret to turning her on. Watch now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4gM_ffc6v8&list=PLt6BKjR7ldazsw2r6oDHqbWSwAE1II5O9&t=2s&index=1
Ana Lushaj (9 месяцев назад)
Am I the only one that makes out with my pillow? Yup.... ok😳
Gabriel Sim (9 месяцев назад)
thats great. eyes tell a lot. Very true.
Joy Lucas (9 месяцев назад)
pg sexually attracted ang lake s girl inlove n un.kc nd mkakaramdam ng libog lalake s girl n nd nia love
Captain Nobody (9 месяцев назад)
I was walking near drain beside a cane paddock near Cairns... I spotted a "red belly black"... Bloody thing gave me that look.... I was not going to be "approaching" any time.
Apple_Cider (9 месяцев назад)
break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back break eye contact and come back
Barry Benson (10 месяцев назад)
How to understand girls. Step 1) you don't
Cuilin Liu (10 месяцев назад)
the love guru has spoken
bio2020 (10 месяцев назад)
"The eyes. The eyes never lie, chico". - Tony Montana
Calvin Torgerson (10 месяцев назад)
I am now a master of stealth.
hardman8903 (10 месяцев назад)
Why you speak eye contact like a Chinese?
Angel of Rock (10 месяцев назад)
To bad girls never are attracted to me so I never see girls do this... *sigh*
Joy Lucas (10 месяцев назад)
kinikilig nga kme.pro pg ung kcheistry nia kharap nia mkikita mu ung chemistry nl beyond at deep.
Joy Lucas (10 месяцев назад)
tlgang mdali maattract lalake s mga bata p.gagawa tlg cl paraan pr mapatira nl s tirahan nl ung girl.
Joy Lucas (10 месяцев назад)
mtrace un s lalake.kc tlgng pinaakyat nl un s tunitirahan nia.lalo n pg lam ng lalake n bata p at wlng anak.
Jeffrey D (11 месяцев назад)
I tried staring at people here in Russia. ....Im actually typing this from the intensive care unit at the hospital.....
Stev Mayse (7 месяцев назад)
Jeffrey D ...Look dude there is a huge difference between *staring* at people and gently looking into their eyes. If you meet an attractive woman you like then you need to look into her eyes, hold it, and smile slightly at the same time. That is called being a real man! Choose to be confident!
Dia Night (11 месяцев назад)
What if a guy stares at me for 90 seconds or more?
Martin Bedan (11 месяцев назад)
the comments in this section cracks me up, literally 10/10 good job haha
Sarah Allen (11 месяцев назад)
I'm just gonna make all my crushes have a staring contest with me for 3 minutes
Zey Prestige (11 месяцев назад)
Mostly the comments aren't even related to the topic of the video. 😂
george mikal (1 год назад)
Does he even pull?
sidra moqdas (1 год назад)
I love your videos also I learned a lot 👍👍👍👍
Al bw (1 год назад)
I'm literally watching this to see if my ships are real
Naomi Samantha (17 дней назад)
I looked up destiel vids and this came up
moi me (27 дней назад)
Hello there
Verocity Cookery Show (2 месяца назад)
And are they? What does "my ships are real" mean?
Inflexible prick (3 месяца назад)
Marija S (9 месяцев назад)
Same oh my gosh. What ships
Talking about eyes, you have symptoms of adrenal fatigue and lack of minerals.
Godrulesandanimals2 (1 год назад)
Or dilated eyes could mean that they're just stoned af
rjacamargo (1 год назад)
WTF this guy know about attraction?
Purple Six Beats (1 год назад)
Take acid and get them dilated pupils . :D
Zaline (1 год назад)
This guy looks like David Hudson (katy's brother) :O btw punch them in the face and you'll have eyecontact don't worry about it !
The Local Rationalist (1 год назад)
I forgive you all
OrchidEighteen (1 год назад)
SammiG (1 год назад)
Xbot4Life (1 год назад)
Does this guy like women though?
Visionaries Infinite (1 год назад)
does any of the extended eye contact apply to when you're giving people attention as they're talking? don't wanna send off an unintended signal to anyone when trying to just be respectful
ifunnyface (1 год назад)
I tried making eye contact with people in the hallway at school as they walked past, and then one of them and their friend (my moms friends son) started laughing cause I was staring straight into the eyes. LOL
Ifeanyi Duru (1 год назад)
What does it mean if you make eye contact w a girl and she looks down to hide a smile?
•Limitless • (1 год назад)
It's a skinny Matt Damon nice
Winter Tarzan Jagrup (1 год назад)
I am 27 years old I wasted my life playing video games . I urge all young boys to study videos on humans . If you study people you will become powerful . Don't waste your life like me.
The Mayor (1 год назад)
Hemant Jagrup I know the feeling :s
The Nerd (1 год назад)
i tried it she pepper sprayed wtf
The Mayor (1 год назад)
The Monkey Nerd lol
Sycamore The Wolf (1 год назад)
No wonder I look away at my “crush” after 3 seconds. Well I'm a girl and she is a girl. 😶 It sucks being transgender at birth but she understands the way I feel and her friends. So yeah 😅😏
ASSaSsInGAiNz 24 (1 год назад)
This almost got me killed I got into a UFC stare down with a girl
Mbraun (1 год назад)
He was taking some laxative, I can see from the mixed signals ....
mohammad naim (1 год назад)
try to stare somebody in the eye in my town and you'll get stabbed to death, true story
Normanisqueen (1 год назад)
mohammad naim extreme
mexican whiteboy (1 год назад)
there's this girl who works at a store i frequent. we exchanged glances a few times. i find her extremely attractive. i usually just see her when im checkin out so not much time to chat. but the last time i was there she held eye contact for about 3 seconds when i caught her staring. but she seems shy but talks to others. anyways i was passing through the p lot omw to a different stroe one time and as i was passing a car i noticed eyes on me. i gazed towards the car and she was staring at me from an angle. as soon as i locked eys she darted them faster than the speed of light!! i wasn't sure it was her at first so i didn't approach plus it was dark lol kinda weird to approach while she sittin in a car. but she kept lookin back.
増山航嗣 (1 год назад)
what if I just like looking at people, but I hate eyecontact (I'm wierd)
Education Over Addiction (1 год назад)
Tried this at a bar yesterday, the girl called the police, I think me staring into her eyes for half an hour straight made her scared
Stev Mayse (7 месяцев назад)
Education Over Addiction... Hogwash. Quit leaving bogus comments.
How'd I get here? From Bts to this? Ok
Awra Kamilia (1 год назад)
Hey ARMYs ;))
BTS x Maemi Chan (1 год назад)
Break J-Hope's heart, I'll break your face. lolllllll 😂
Purrfect Purrfection (1 год назад)
oh my god this made me realize how much I do these things. I'm an embarrassment.
GregoryTheGr8ster (1 год назад)
If you look into someone's pupils and you see a red glow, RUN AWAY IMMEDIATELY! You are dealing with an evil cyborg. Remember the Terminator? The one thing that evil cyborgs CANNOT hide is the red glow of pure evil emanating from their eyes.
SwaggyD (1 год назад)
GregoryTheGr8ster Lol
crystal dahmer (1 год назад)
I find him attractive
qarwholesale affordable ok (1 год назад)
Presley Boler (1 год назад)
But my eyes are so dark brown you can't see my pupils lololol
Maricela GARCIA (1 год назад)
that doesn't mean a girl is interested essentially....
mexican whiteboy (1 год назад)
it means shes somewhat interested. otherwise she wouldn't look. depends o n the guy what he's like weither he is a good match for her criteria
Faizan Ali (1 год назад)
maricela garcia The same goes for a guy.
Hey There (1 год назад)
1:54 lots of people did it at the MoMA in The Artist is Present, stop lying.
Christian hitrancis (1 год назад)
i never get a second glance when i make eye contact.

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