Rediscover love, sex and sensuality after 50! This week on Our 2nd Act, the friends candidly discuss a topic most women (and men) are hesitant to talk about -- dealing with painful sex and dryness due to menopause. Patty Brisben, Founder of Pure Romance, offers important advice and practical information every woman needs to know.
This is just one video we have talking about intimacy, sensuality, love and sex after 50. Check out the full playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLgLYhw2N4FcveqGVLz1_YUbJ2XDqqQs-U
So what's the problem with oral sex or just stroking, rubbing the mons, penis, breast, frenulum and breast? You don't have to go all the way anymore. But the affection really has to be there. Talk to each other. Know the comfort limits of each other.
We women know all to well... that men take it WAY TO PERSONAL when women don't get wet..A lot of women know that men expect us to act like porn stars... moaning and groaning at fake pleasure.. Women appease men with fake porn acting just to call it a night... and still make them feel good about them selves... Most women know before the sex begins weather or not they're into having an orgasm or not...
Sorry, I couldn't watch this video. Just kinda fast forwarded through it. Couldn't take the women in the beginning. They acted so immature, while I think the men were more mature. None the less, I can say it cuz I'm a female. Maybe if they just stop giggling and talk to their husbands, they could work around it . Add some moisture ladies, oh and use it once in a while, lol.
oh, really, its good to hear that, now i have no fear to think that i will not never get pregnant, now i can overcome my fears and anxieties, you give me the strength to move on, and enjoy life, being love and enjoy life. thank you ladys, for being their with us, giving the information we need, and exactly hits the questions we asked. love you, and more power. god bless.
my period of menstruation stop at the age of 46, until i reach the age of 55 i never have menstruation, then we use this coconut oil for lubrication during interocurse, is there a possibility i could be pregnant.
thanks again for your advice, i will search that website that you give to me, i have a question again, im leaving soon, and going back home, im going to leave my boyfriend, and it takes months to see each other again, do i have to continue the fractionated coconut oil in my vagina, even without intercourse. Or i will use that oil if ever we meet again. Is menopausal women can be pregnant.is there a possibility. Im afraid i get pregnant after many intercourse.
If your symptoms are due to vaginal dryness, using the coconut oil without intercourse will help keep your tissue moist, but as a lubricant you really just need it for intercourse. Your doctor will be able to diagnose your condition and prescribe the best treatment, which may be a hormone treatment. Regarding your other question, if you are going through menopause and getting your period irregularly, the possibility is that you can still get pregnant, though it is rare. It is my understanding that you need to go without a period for 12 months before you can no longer conceive. Again, be sure to talk to your doctor and safe travels home. :-)
thank you for your advice, my bf buy a lubricant, for the meantime we used this, unknown lubricant that he buy from a sex toy store, we are waiting for our orders, the fractionated coconut oil at the amazon, so we try this unlabelled lubricant, we put this lubricant, im on top, and i slowly put it, penetrating slowly, i feel it hurts, and the lubricant still works, i do the maneuver because if he does it will bleed, i enjoy the sensation, but after i pulled it, there is a stain of blood. what is estrogen, is that a capsule or medecine to be taken daily. When i get back home to my country, i seek a gnecologist. thank you girls for your wonderful advice, i trust you, and you give the best advice to women like me who have the same problem
I'm glad you are going to go see a doctor when you get home. Here is a link to an article with causes of vaginal bleeding after intercourse. http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/977.aspx?CategoryID=118 As we already discussed, since you have not had sex for 10 years, it is likely that you are experiencing vaginal dryness and thinning of the walls and tissue which can be treated by a doctor with vaginal estrogen for one example. Here is a link that explains vaginal estrogen. https://www.womentowomen.com/menopause-perimenopause/treatments-for-vaginal-dryness/ I'm glad that my advice helps, but you really need to see a doctor and I am glad that you are!!
i have never been sex to any men or boyfriend since my husband died. almost 10 years of no intercourse, i met this man of my life and we love each other, then accidentally we got carry away ,and we have sex, but after the intercourse, bleeding occurs on my vagina, my panty was full of blood. thats why when he want again for sex, i refuse and scared. what shall i do. please help me, i don't want to lose him, im afraid that whenever he uses me, will make again bleeding of my vagina.
Here is my experience, I am not a doctor, and cannot give you medical advice. So first thing, I would advise you to go see your doctor. What I suspect you are experiencing is that since you have not had sex (intercourse) for 10 years your vaginal tissue is thin and dry, and thus tearing and bleeding. Thousands of women experience this. A gynecologist can prescribe vaginal estrogen for you, that usually makes a big difference in just a few days. Also, always use a lubricant going forward - natural coconut oil - like the one we discuss in this link and video - works great. https://youtu.be/2QQLQfc_6Go
I hope this helps :-)
Local hrt can work... Silicone .. Isn't it bad for bladder infections? Thought some of the men were very understanding and mature about this subject in this video.. It's like if a man's penis shrivelled like a walnut at 50. I could almost live without sex now but it's the intimacy of sharing I would miss. Best for these ladies to try different ointments and fun stuff
Just saw your lovely comment. Sorry I missed it before. Only certain men fit into the "pigs" category, sounds like you might be one of them. The comment from Karin is in context with the conversation. Thank you Karin for understanding.
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